The weight of the loneliness

How do you handle the weight, the heaviness of feeling lonely. As a young adult Christian female seeking out the wisdom of other older Christians, I've found that many of them didn't wait till they were married to have sex.

I've tried staying away from the dating game. It has left me very lonely, struggling with my physical & sexual desires. When I do try dating it's frustrating to encounter Christian men who say they want a virtuous woman but their actions show the opposite.

What are women like myself to do?